Handfasting-by-Design             

Bride: Groom: Wedding Date:

Contact Phone:  Mailing Address:

(To Mail Contracts)

Family Background and Information about the Bride and Groom: 

1. How long have you been together?

2. How did you meet?

3. Tell me about your relationship

4. Is this a first marriage for both? Second marriage?

5. Do you have any children? (yours, his or both) 

6. What is your family background, are there any traditions you would like to include? 

7. Please tell me about your parents. Are your parents alive?  
Will they be attending ceremony? 
Will the bride's father giving away bride? If not, who?

About Your Wedding: 

8. What type of wedding do you "see" yourselves having? (How do you vision your special day?  
Please give me some insight of the tone or feel for your ceremony)

9. What type of a ceremony would you like to have?  
Religious or non-religious? Spiritual? Civil? If religious, which ones?

10. Where is ceremony to be performed? What time of day or evening?  

11. How many attendants will there be? 
 

12. About how many guests are you expecting?  
Anything special I should know (wheel chair, other special needs, etc.) 

13. What is the dress code? Formal dress or informal dress? 
 
 
 

14. How are the two of you going to perform your vows? 
Do you want to write vows for one another or pick a reading? 
Do you want to repeat your vows or would you rather memorize the vows?

15. Do you want anyone to do a reading(s)? 
 
 

16. Will you have music for the ceremony? What type? Recorded, live? Who? 
 
 
 

17. Would you like to include any of the smaller ceremonies like the Unity candle or Rose Ceremony? 
 
 
 

18. Is there anything you do or don't want included? 
 
 
 

19. Is there anything special you want me to know about? 
(engagement ring or wedding ring from relative, honeymoon plans, etc?

20. What do you think the key for you to live a long and happy life together